The Rare Norm a couple of months ago Share Tweet Pin Share My father-in-law doesn’t speak with my husband anymore because “the bible says homosexuality is a sin” (we are gay btw). Before all contact was cut, I had asked him “Didn’t you ever suspect [my husband] was gay before?” And he fervently denied ever suspecting he might be gay and our relationship was a total surprise. However I knew that as a teenager, gay porn was found on the computer, my husband’s grandmother talked with the FIL about the possibility of him being gay (my husband had a proclivity for wearing a towel on his head and singing “girly” songs), oh and the dad LITERALLY WALKED IN ON HIM HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY when he was younger. I asked my FIL if he wanted to reconsider his answer, seeing as “thou shalt not bear false witness” is a commandment, but he doubled down. And additionally insisted that he doesn’t hate gays, he is just following the bible. Extremists and non-extremists, these people will use religion to justify anything they want.
